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David M. Webb

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When I launched my podcast last month, the working title was 'Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Podcast.' As a divorced man over 40 myself, I wanted to create a space to discuss the unique challenges we face during this transition. However, over time I realized the title was too limiting and literal. Just because we are men over 40 recovering from divorce, does not mean that fully defines us or the topics relevant to our healing.

 

So I decided to rebrand with the new name ‘Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast.' This metaphorical title better captures the mindset many men have after a painful divorce. When we were young boys with skinned knees or elbows, we couldn't seem to let the scab fully form before picking at it again. Though it lengthened the healing process and usually led to re-injury, we did it anyway. In the same compulsive way, men going through the agony of divorce struggle to build back our sense of self before scratching at unresolved feelings about the split. We replay events to assign blame, dwell in anger and regret, or try to numb our discomfort.

 

The name ‘Don’t Pick the Scab’ is a reminder to men over 40 recovering from divorce that we must discipline ourselves to let our wounds close. We can discuss our injuries but in a healing way, not one that reopens them. This podcast aims to support that complete recovery process.

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Men Dating After Divorce: A 20-Year Dating Coach's Playbook 🎙️❤️ Jared Laurence || DPTSP#163
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTOctober 25, 2026x
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Men Dating After Divorce: A 20-Year Dating Coach's Playbook 🎙️❤️ Jared Laurence || DPTSP#163

Dating after divorce when you're over 40 feels impossible — but what if it's actually EASIER than when you were 22? 😳 In this episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, David sits down with Jared Laurence — a dating coach with 20 years of experience, author of "The Psychology of Modern Flirting" and "...

Judges HATE This: How One Dad Mastered Family Court Without a Lawyer - Ben Schooley || DPTSP #162
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTOctober 24, 2026x
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Judges HATE This: How One Dad Mastered Family Court Without a Lawyer - Ben Schooley || DPTSP #162

What happens when a dad can't afford an attorney — so he becomes his own? 💪⚖️ Ben Schooley never wanted a law degree. But when his second marriage imploded after the birth of his third child, false allegations started flying, and attorneys wanted a $10,000 retainer he didn't have — he had no choice...

Divorced Dad Survival Guide: Own Your Off Week and Heal Like a Rockstar! 😤 || Bill Porter || DPTSP #161
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTOctober 21, 2026x
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Divorced Dad Survival Guide: Own Your Off Week and Heal Like a Rockstar! 😤 || Bill Porter || DPTSP #161

Divorced dads — what do you do during the week your kids are GONE? 🤔 That empty house, that silence, that overwhelming feeling of "now what?" If you're a man over 40 going through divorce, this episode might be the most important 30 minutes of your recovery. My guest today is Bill Porter, a divorce...

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