In this episode, your host David sits down with trailblazing family mediator and “Kids First” advocate, Tina Keyes. With more than a decade of experience, Tina has helped hundreds of families avoid courtroom battles and find real solutions—putting children’s wellbeing at the heart of divorce recovery.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
-How traditional divorce sets parents up as enemies—and what to do instead
-Why starting with your kids’ needs (not finances) leads to better outcomes
The secret mindset shift to move from adversaries to teammates as co-parents
-Why your relationship with your kids is more important than controlling your ex
-Common mistakes divorced dads make (and how to avoid them!)
-How to communicate when your ex isn’t cooperative or high-conflict
-Why is healing yourself the key to making good decisions for your family
-Real talk about co-parenting schedules, quality time, and what’s actually best for your kids
-Why mediation is the future of divorce—and how it’s changing lives
Tina shares powerful insights—like her “orange” analogy for compromise and how neutral, positive interactions can transform even the toughest relationships. You’ll also hear real stories about dads who stopped obsessing over their ex and started focusing on building lasting bonds with their children.
Whether you’re just starting your divorce journey, stuck in conflict, or trying to be the best dad you can be, this episode is packed with practical advice and hope.
👉 Ready to take the next step? Share your biggest challenge as a divorced dad in the comments below. What’s worked for you? What still feels impossible? Let’s build a community of men supporting men to put their kids first and reclaim their lives after divorce.
Tina's Websites:
www.floridadivorcemediation.com
www.kidsfirstmediation.com
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