From Victim to Victor: Transformative Strategies for Men Navigating Divorce / Suzan Peltikian || DPTSP #089 || David M. Webb

[00:00:00] Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, where we dive deep into the emotional journey of divorce recovery. For men over 40, in today's episodes, we are thrilled to have Suzan Peltikian, passionate peak performance coach and global speaker. Woo-hoo!

[00:00:13] Suzan is dedicated to helping individuals transform their mindsets and manifest their dreams. She's a positive stoke, guys. Huge positive stoke. Together, we'll explore the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of self-care, one of my favorite things, self-care, doing recovery, and what true healing looks like for men navigating life after the divorce. Join us as we uncover powerful insights and practical tools to support your journey toward a brighter future.

[00:00:44] Suzan, you've got the mic. How did you start in this? What was your segue? Suzan Peltikian Well, first of all, a big thank you for having me and for allowing me the deepest privilege to serve our men. Suzan Peltikian Before you hit record, I was sharing with you that I didn't believe in myself. This is the only thing I've ever wanted to do since childhood. Of course, I didn't know what a coach was at the time. I wanted to be a speaker in raw people. And I never believed in myself. You said I've done quite a few things.

[00:01:11] Suzan Peltikian Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab podcast with the premise of connecting men over 40 with the tools and community to thrive in their divorce recovery either before, during, or after a divorce. Check it out.

[00:01:40] Suzan Peltikian It's true. I was a flight attendant. I was a mortgage broker, a mortgage underwriter, a teacher of English as a second language at a college in my 20s, debt collector, and so much more until I finally made one powerful decision right before COVID. Suzan Peltikian To retire from real estate. And the number one REMAX worldwide at the time, while they're still the number one, they're the best people that I've ever worked with.

[00:02:02] Suzan Peltikian I happened through the law of attraction to manifest working with them. They filled up all of my spots during COVID. And basically, the rest is history. It's fast forward five years. And these are the same laws that I want to support our awesome men here listening into your beautiful podcast, to support them with their lives, because everything is one of the same.

[00:02:23] Suzan Peltikian Everything is energy. And we'll talk more about it. So that's the long and short, the shortest version of the story. This is my childhood dream and divine purpose to empower every beautiful soul that I get to touch, to live their best lives by becoming the highest version of themselves today, not tomorrow. So right now.

[00:02:43] Suzan Peltikian All right. Let's dive into co-parenting. That's one of the big subjects that my men have a hard time. How can you bring into that the law of attraction into co-parenting?

[00:02:53] Suzan Peltikian My goodness, what a great question. Thank you, David. As I mentioned to you in an email, and I just said it a second ago that everything is one of the same. That situation has come into our lives as a lesson. So the way to transform that is to transform self whether someone listening in is a man or a woman. It's the same answer, by the way. So this isn't for the men. It is for the men. Right? And we are here for you, gents. Awesome gents today. So it is for you. But I wouldn't be saying anything different.

[00:03:23] And to the ladies, the premise of our work is what Mahatma Gandhi said, David, be the change you wish to see in the world. And our entire work is for us to transform. There are so many tools that we can discuss today that will allow that. Now, that individual showing up in our lives or that situation in the case of co-parenting, so the ex would be the individual, the co-parenting would be the circumstance, is the gift and the opportunity for us to transcend.

[00:03:53] And a lot of the times we're like, no, thank you, Susan, please return back to sender. I don't like this gift. And that is the beauty of us being human beings in the flesh, if you will, because who you are, David, is God's highest form of creation. And for whoever's listening in, and if you don't believe in God, I'll use the words interchangeably with Gus, which is God, universe, spirit, infinite intelligence, creator, mother nature.

[00:04:19] We're all one. And literally, we keep attracting and we're magnets at the same time, we're going to keep attracting the same people in our lives with different names, sometimes the same person, I've done the exact same person, by the way, like the lesson wasn't harsh enough. It's evolve or repeat.

[00:04:35] Yeah, it was really putting my finger on the fire big time. I was putting my entire hand, if not the body. And it's evolve or repeat, we're going to keep repeating the same and attracting the same situation, circumstances, people until we transform.

[00:04:51] And that's the gift of being a human being. Because David, you're not David, just the body and the flesh, which is a beautiful young man. You are Michelangelo's David. And that is everyone tuning in. And David, the podcaster being the dentist, the awesome dentist podcaster being Michelangelo's David doesn't take away from anyone else.

[00:05:13] We're literally chipping away all of the BS, all of the conditioning, all of the programming, all of the generational traumas, so that you can actually unleash into the fullness of who the creator, who God made you to be. You're already perfection in your DNA. If the gents listening in, please let that not just sink into your conscious mind, because I know you're all super intelligent.

[00:05:40] I don't need to meet you to know that you're super intelligent. I believe you're God's child. So you must be a genius. All right. And in your DNA, you're not in your DNA. You're perfect in your ways of being you ain't. And guess what I always say on our world class worldwide master classes, that who am I to talk about it? Who am I to judge? I live in the biggest glass house. That's the beauty, David, of being in the flesh.

[00:06:04] You are a limitless soul who is having a very temporary experience in human form in this vessel, if you will. And we'll talk more about self-care since you love it. That needs to be throughout. Really invite the gents to do that. And I'll give more tips on that if that's cool tools.

[00:06:20] And so it's the knowingness, not in your conscious mind, because our results are coming from the subconscious 95 to 98 percent for you to know in your heart of hearts. That's your body. That's your emotional mind. That's your subconscious mind. 95 to 98 percent of our results is coming from there that you are literally this universe's highest form of creation.

[00:06:40] If you don't believe a word, I say, go look back. You were born, excuse me, in the perfect vibration, perfect baby David. No one ever said that's an ugly baby or that's a bad baby or that baby cries too much or the baby doesn't think it's crazy because one minute it's crying. The next minute it's happy. We were born with joy. That's your divine birthright.

[00:07:02] And then the programming started, especially at four or five. When we went to school, you got a lineup to get into class. You got to literally raise your hand to go to the bathroom and little boys. And specifically, we've been extremely unfair to because, oh, bad. You're not being a good boy if you show emotion. And now those little boys have become the men who are harboring, who have all those feelings inside.

[00:07:26] And that's very unhealthy and not realistic for us and unfair, quite frankly, for us to expect that from men. Did I answer? Because I have more to say. I have an answer. So basically what you're saying is it's no matter what kind of co-parenting situation you're in, all you can do is what you can do and be the best co-parent you can be. That is. And there are ways for it. So Neville Goddard talks about this. It's like me having, let's say, hair on my, like a lash hair.

[00:07:55] On my face. And I'm trying to look at it in the mirror and trying to remove it from the mirror. What human beings are doing, and I myself, by the way, my entire life lived from the outside in. And we can talk more about living from the inside out, which less than 1% of the population is doing. So a lot of this, remember, gents, I've been in the practice of and I work on it every single day. Right? So they're easy for me to sit here and talk about. And you can apply them.

[00:08:22] It's a practice just like yoga, just like coming back to our breath. And actually that's the first practice I'd invite you awesome gents to do is to come back to your breath. That's where your power is. That's how you know that you're alive. And pinch yourselves. We're six feet above ground today. So many didn't make it. And we can create newly. And it all starts with us. You have limitless power within you. The same limitless soul who created the internet that David here can be in Colorado.

[00:08:51] I'm from Toronto, Canada. I am in Dubai. It's night. You can see it's daytime there. You have that limitless genius within you. It's tapping into it. And if we could keep repeating what's happening, whether it's man or woman, so the men know it's not about the men. We're all one. All right. It's going to happen. That's how powerful we are. That's actually shows how much of powerful manifestors we are. So if I keep going to the mirror to try to remove the hair, I'm never going to be able to. Instead of actually looking, oh, it's right here.

[00:09:21] And then as I transform my outside by law, this is law of attraction. It's God's laws, universal laws. Things must transform. It may take a month. It may take two years. It may take 10 years. When we keep the faith and hold the vision and don't allow too many double binding messages, it will happen way faster. But it has to happen if we've created it. If the creator put that seed in us, it must come to pass.

[00:09:50] And it's our job, David, our duty and our responsibility to ourselves to bring it to pass for our children, to heal past generational traumas, and to be the legacy and heal the future generation and our mankind, quite frankly. I'm here for the men, for all of you, because I believe we are one. And it's my job to spread the message of love and light. So let's get to the crux then. Let's do it.

[00:10:18] So what kind of strategies can men use to combat a conflicting co-operative situation? What kind of strategies can they use? Fantastic. First, everything almost that I mention, and I haven't studied the Bible, but I know it because I had a Christian upbringing. First came the word. It's all in the Bible, but I don't teach theology, all right? We really want to watch our words. Our words hold so much power. Don't believe me? Please do the test.

[00:10:48] Look at any area of your life that is super juicy. My deepest compassion and love with all you are going through. And this too shall pass. The adversity is happening for us. It's not happening to us, right? So the first thing is, without believing anything I say on this podcast, please try it out. Look to see. Even though this area, let's say, isn't working at this moment, there are areas that are super juicy or there are areas in between.

[00:11:16] Look to see what you say about the areas that are the area that's not working and the areas that are super juicy. So first is our words and not just the outer speech, David. What's our inner speech? Because a lot of time you may cross me, you may cut me off at traffic, and I may not give you my middle finger, which was the old way of being of mine, my paradigm, my mental programming to want someone out. But I may say, oh, what a fool, what an idiot.

[00:11:44] The minute I've diminished you, by the way, I've diminished Susan. When we understand, not here again, I know the men are super intelligent. The understanding is a getting. It's a knowingness in our heart of hearts that we are all one. That the minute I diminish you, I've actually diminished self. So watch out twofold here. The first tool is what you say outwardly. The second tool is what you say inwardly. What's your inner speech like?

[00:12:12] And most days, it's so on autopilot, that drunk monkey, David. It goes on and on. Hours. And we're cussing a person out, right? So we've basically allowed someone who's not paying your mortgage, who's not paying for your lifestyle, who isn't dealing with your suffering. Like divorce is very tough, especially with co-parenting. And you now allow them the space to rent space there for free.

[00:12:38] And they're basically creating your life, but you're actually doing it because no one can do it for you. We're not victims. Now, 99% of us, if not 100%, I never want to say also that I'm accurate, because I haven't had the privilege of meeting everyone on the planet yet. Or maybe I'm right. Is most of us are in victim consciousness until we deal with these sorts of situations that allow us to rise above by chipping away. You don't have to become someone new. As I said, you're already born in the perfect vibration.

[00:13:07] All we're doing is chipping away at Michelangelo's David so that you can unleash into the fullness of who the creator, who God, who the universe made you to be. And we want to use this as so one is what are we saying to ourselves? Two is what are we saying inside to ourselves? Three, how do we speak to them? Is she the fool? Is he the idiot? Are they the hell in our lives? Are we a victim of theirs?

[00:13:35] Because the minute we say that, we've given all our power to them. Imagine. It's like you're done with them, and now they have all the power. Yep. No way! I'm all about that Carvana parking structure with all the cars. Carvana has cars, and it's like a machine that spits out cars. Have you seen that commercial? Yes. So I'm all about parking spaces, and you only have limited parking spaces in your brain.

[00:14:04] So you don't want to put in the Yugo or the Beetle. You want to put in the Lamborghini. You want to put in the nice cars and not waste your time with trashy cars. And I think men and people in general allow people and situations to occupy those parking spaces in your brain. We only have limited spaces. Amen to that. Amen to that. And, David, in fairness, there are two things.

[00:14:32] Thoughts versus feelings. And I discussed earlier that I don't think our men are given a fair chance in that they're not taught from childhood. They're actually taught a lie, a big lie. Hey, shut up. Don't show your emotions. That's not manly. Quite the contrary. And that really turns out to be very unhealthy, not just for men, for our entire society, but that we created. That's very unfair, right? So if it is a feeling, we now want to learn to actually feel it, to heal it.

[00:15:01] And that is our responsibility now, right? And our privilege. And that's one thing we get to do. The second one is, if it's a thought, just the first one is never in our control, but pinch yourself. That means you're alive, that we have a thought. The second one is always in your control. So if a thought comes in, the carvana that you're saying that we have limited space, absolutely. Don't give the ex.

[00:15:26] And I call the ex not my, the, so that we're separating to create space, to let them be. And then send them love. That would be another tool that may be one of the hardest things to do. And that's what we're saying. Who you are at your core, whether you're aware of it or not, is pure liquid love. And these circumstances sometimes don't allow us to see it because, again, the anger masks a lot of our sadness, which we weren't allowed to feel unfairly, right?

[00:15:55] So let's feel to heal first. That's the most important for a healthy young man and for any human being, quite frankly, for a healthy society. And from there, if it's a thought, we want to be in the practice of, oh, there's a thought. I'm not married to the thought, thankfully. The thought is not me. I'm separate. I'm a limitless soul. You are a limitless soul. The thought is just a visitor that's coming in. Let it come through, acknowledge it, and go straight into the second thought.

[00:16:24] Now, what most of us are doing, unfortunately, is we are pushing the beach ball down into the water. And whatever we resist persists because culturally we're not taught to feel, man especially, above all, very unfairly. So our job is to learn, to feel it, to heal it. That's the only way.

[00:16:42] Otherwise, we're going to do what I did my entire life prior to the work was to numb it, which a lot of us are doing through various addictions, whether it be porn, whether it be over drinking, whether it be overeating, whether it be Netflix or whether it be IG, doesn't matter. There are different, whether it be being a workaholic. They're all ways of actually not living. We're numbing. We want to feel to heal. We don't want to numb. Okay.

[00:17:08] And then we want to actually practice thinking positively. You said before you hit the record button that I'm positive and I am. But having done the work, David, I want to be very authentic. I was toxically positive. Much. I was, yes, raised very much like a boy, if you will, that vulnerability is weak. You don't show your emotions. I had a very hard time feeling my feelings. That's why I learned to numb.

[00:17:33] And so I can really, I have so much compassion for the men because for a man, it's way tougher, right? Being a man. And when you learn that the feeling is to be felt, but we're not like, and then the thought is just a thought. It's a visitor. It's coming in. We're not it. And if we keep resisting it, it's going to, it's going to keep repeating. And if we keep blaming the ex, that means we're going to be in victim consciousness.

[00:18:03] And then we're going to attract the same cycle. It'll be another woman. Yeah. Yeah. And it's our job. This is literally a gift as sad as it may seem. And you're like, no, Susan, please return to sender.

[00:18:15] It's a gift and it is going to be one of your biggest gifts that is going to literally the bow from the old times backwards or the plane that goes back to, it's just going to propel you to heights, to quantum leaps, to a new love, to a new level of awareness, new level of being a man. Yeah. You're the generational pattern breaker, basically. How do you speak to men about my past podcasts?

[00:18:44] I'm a second generational divorce. You're not. Yeah. With that stigma comes shame, disappointment, regret. How can a man get past that? Well, my first step in anything such a fantastic question. Thank you, David, is acknowledging. All right. And we're carrying so much that isn't ours. That's part of the lie, by the way.

[00:19:14] My entire life I carry shame, guilt. And shame and guilt specifically are at the bottom of the totem pole of feelings to have that are at the lowest vibrational frequency than we're now attracting. From there we can go and have affairs. From there we can go and treat our exes worse. Or from there we can go and make more, create more actions that actually make us feel that way. The first step is to acknowledge that it isn't yours. So awareness is really key.

[00:19:44] And knowing that this isn't yours. And if you repeat that I'm ashamed, ask yourself, what about it is shameful? What is so shameful? My mom and dad split up. And I was much older when they did. It was almost after 30 years of marriage. And this is the first podcast I'm speaking about it on. Right? When I look at it, it wasn't us. We're not to blame. Why are we taking on that? Again, it's all generational patterns that are passing on. And it's not ours.

[00:20:12] So really, awareness is key. Acknowledgement is key. And then asking ourselves, empowering questions. Why? Why do I think this way? Or asking ourselves questions because all the answers are in the questions. And we can see that we've just bought a bunch of lies. It's the follower following the follower. Hey, I got to feel shame. I got to feel guilt. And it's something normally, usually, by the way, and I heard a great young man that was on your podcast.

[00:20:42] Such a great podcast you have. I was listening to a couple before we hopped on. I think his name is Michael Reed. He's a men's coach. And he was saying how it is. It's all from childhood, David. There's something that happened. There's something that happened even with our divorces from childhood that led to us. Most of us haven't had a clue of what a beautiful marriage looks like. So to actually forgive ourselves, something that just came to me, you didn't ask.

[00:21:10] But since it came, it's divinely perhaps to shares. If the men can please repeat this all day, every day to themselves. None of my tools are mine, by the way. I've recycled from various gurus worldwide. I'm not a guru. Look in the mirror would be great. Put your hand on your heart and say it. It's the hopo ono ono. I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. And repeat that prayer all day, every day.

[00:21:36] We must forgive ourselves and we must tell ourselves that we love ourselves because whatever happened, we're not to blame for it. Blame is very distinct from responsibility. And yet we're 100% responsible. That means the woman is also 100% responsible. Now, if she's not taking that responsibility, we do our part.

[00:21:59] May I throw in a bonus tool that all athletes will get the men's attention supercharged right now when I talk about athletes, hopefully. All athletes use this, especially the one percenters that are winning, is visualizing. So anything you want, you can actually visualize what you want. So first get crystal clear on what sort of relationship you want in this co-parenting. And then start visualizing yourself getting along with the ex.

[00:22:29] Start visualizing. Let's say she mistreats you. And I'm sorry if she does. And she doesn't speak to you in a way that is in harmony or whatever it may be. See it the way you want to see it. And by law, you have that power to actually transcend that and transform that. So visualization is key. That's one of your higher faculties, our higher faculties. And we really can transform worlds.

[00:22:55] Everything that we can currently see, the internet, everything is energy. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. It was always here. It will always be here just like us. Thank you. So that's it. So if we can create worlds, we can be on a podcast worlds apart, right? We can co-create a co-parenting relationship that works. And it all starts with us.

[00:23:23] That means if I were speaking to the women, I would tell them the exact same thing. It all starts with them. Does that make sense? What about self-care? Let's change gears here. Men suck at self-care. They want to take care of everybody. They've been the hunter-gatherer forever. And that's in the history. How can a man, what can you say to men out there to start taking care of themselves and why it's so important? Do it. And do it now. Okay. Because you're number one of one.

[00:23:51] You're not only Michelangelo's David. You're not only number one of one. Took one in 400 trillion, David, for you to be here. If that's not a miracle, I don't know what is. I'm getting goosebumps. I hope you can feel it for yourself. So you're basically a walking miracle. You're pure liquid love. Walking miracle means your pure potentiality. And if you don't take care of number one of one at the headquarters, at the supercharged

[00:24:20] headquarters worldwide, I tell all my men and women that number zero on the list is you. That's MBS. Your mind, your body, your soul. They go hand in hand. And we cannot pour from an empty cup. So find what sparks your soul, what sets your soul on fire, what makes you happy and do it daily. Okay. Because otherwise you're really basically cheating on yourself. This is like a very short time we have here, David.

[00:24:49] We don't have much time. And spoiler alert, we know what the ending is for all of us. Yep. Nobody gets out alive. Thank you. And we really owe it to ourselves. Let's stop. Let's stop playing small and let's really step on the playground, which is life, which is the game. It's our game. And let's set the rules and let's play full out. Let's swing full out. Life on our terms. If there's no room left to play, we're not allowed to feel our feelings on top of that.

[00:25:18] That's what society has taught us. A bunch of big lies, by the way. What's left? What are we doing here? That's a lot of suffering. Remember, pain is inevitable. Suffering is an option. And as humans in the flesh, we're going to go through pain. Wow. What about identity? The men, when you get divorced, you lose your identity. And how can they get that back or how can they form another one? I love that. I teach identity, by the way. So thanks for asking.

[00:25:48] If I may retract by sharing step one of manifestation first and then go into identity. So I've shared, I would invite all of the gents listening in the minute your brilliant podcast goes out, David, to take pen to paper and write out a vision for their life. It's in the Bible. Without a vision, the people perish. So right now that something extremely sad and excruciating and painful has happened, that is really your jumpstart to a whole new life.

[00:26:16] You may be listening in and you just got divorced. This may not seem something that you're going to do today. Trust me, you're going to do it in due time. It's fine. Take your time. Feel to heal. Get all the support required to actually feel healed. That's step one. That's the most important thing. Take care of your exquisite soul and self. Once you've done that, it's taking pen to paper and writing down that vision of what kind of life you want for yourself. From that vision, we don't get, we can never have that vision. And Oprah talks about this.

[00:26:46] She said, you get who you are, who you believe you are. And that's the self-image. That's the self-concept. That's the identity. That's what one of my mentors, Bob Proctor, has taught us before he passed away. He was in the movie, The Secret from the Law of Attraction. And he says, the only prerequisite, David, to having it all is knowing what we want. And there's a big caveat. We don't get what we want. We get who we're being. Basically, that's what we keep attracting. So identity is key.

[00:27:14] So once we've created this super juicy vision, and if you're not in a place to create a super juicy vision, get. No problem. Please be gentle with yourself. Practice full compassion. Compassion. You'll hear me say a lot of the times to my clients, gentle. I was the harshest person to myself. I loathed myself for most of my life until the work where I'm in love, not in a narcissistic way, but in a healthy way. And I invite you, Jens, to really deeply fall in love with yourself. You're literally number one of one.

[00:27:44] You're this universe's highest form of creation. So create a want list if the vision sounds too big or a smaller vision instead of the juiciest, grandest vision. A want list to start with so that you can focus on that because most of us, most of the time, are focused as humans on what we don't want. We're like, oh, I don't want that kind of guy or that kind of gal or that kind of marriage or that kind of co-parenting situation. The universe doesn't hear the negations, David. It doesn't hear negation. It gives us more of it.

[00:28:13] And we're like, Susan, this keeps happening. Yeah, you just co-created it. No, but it's happening. Yes, that's your power. Because so many people come to me to learn how to manifest. You're not to come here to learn how to. You're already a super powerful manifester. But I teach you to get out of the way, out of the way, out of the way to step into who the creator truly made you to be. This universe is highest form of creation. So back to the first and second step is vision or want list.

[00:28:39] From there, I create a short paragraph of I am statements of who you truly are. And repeat that ad nauseum day in, day out. If you want to supercharge it further, David, do it in front of the mirror. Look in your eyes at the beginning. It will be so hard. You may cry. Cry it out. And we can hold space for you to cry. That doesn't make you less of a man. That makes you a beautiful human being. And that's who you are. If you're listening in, this isn't by accident. There are no accidents, okay?

[00:29:09] Know your divinity. Know that you're made in his image. And then that self-image, David, we could record it on an app. I should have stocks or be an affiliate of this company by now. I'm not. I've been referring people to them. And there are versions of it. There's a free version to get first. If people want to upgrade, I recommend it later. First, get used to using it. It's to record that self-image, that new identity that we just created. On the ThinkUp app, it's called ThinkUp, so that you can listen to it.

[00:29:38] Because it's the programming now that's going to be what's important. What we want to do is get these men, the same way you drive to work, and you have no idea how you got there, on autopilot. That's the 95% to 98%. There's so much CRAP, SHIT in all of us through our programming that's been put in there that we're just behaving in our relationships, in the way we eat, in the way we drink, in the way we watch porn, whatever you call it, in the way we are being. That's not who we are.

[00:30:08] You are magical beyond words and measure, whom I may be being as an asshole to you because you crossed me, and I think I can cross you now. Instead of knowing my divinity and knowing that the minute I cross you, I've actually cussed myself out. Does that make sense? I hope this... Yes, it does. All I see is me yelling into a canyon, and I'm yelling negative stuff, and it's echoing back. And the moment I yell something positive,

[00:30:38] it does not echo. Cool, huh? You got it, eh? Yeah, that's what that is. Universe gives it back. And then the moment you do something positive, it just absorbs it and keeps moving. Yes. So it actually will give us back multiplied greatness. So all there is, David, is abundance. Scarcity is a lie. Scarcity is created through men.

[00:31:07] When I say man, I'm everything but sexist. Men and women's thinking. It's through us. We're that powerful. And don't believe a word I say for all those precious souls who are tuning in is think. Even if it's an abundance of SHIT, there will be an abundance of that. Right? So there's only abundance. Look at the sunshine if you're tuning in, and there's sunshine in the city where you're at, and you're part of the globe. If it's rain, if it's snow, if it's freezing cold, if it's super hot, whatever it may be, God's laws,

[00:31:37] God's world is only abundant. So we want to put out... Yes. So we want to put only that out so that... We don't want to do it so that it comes back. But by law, it must... Basically, we're all farmers. Whatever plants... I always say whatever plants cancel. Whatever seeds we're planting, that's what we're going to get back multiplied. Reap and sow. Reap and sow. Yeah. All right, Susan. Man, that was fun. That was way different than what I thought. That was... Yeah. Thank you very much for that. I told you I got you.

[00:32:07] Yeah. You got me. I've been thinking about this one for a while. This is going to be fun. Actually, I'm not going to edit. I'm just going to put it out there. You know, I hope it touches the hearts and souls of every human man, human soul that gets to hear it. I hope they know who they are. Where can my listeners find you on the internet? On the World Wide Web, at superchargedwithsusan on IG. Okay. Yeah. Superchargedwithsusan.com is the website, but IG is the fastest. If they want a free call,

[00:32:37] thanks to meeting through you, I'm happy to hop on a free call and give them guidance. We're going to run a masterclass that has nothing to do with divorce, but it all supports. I told you it's all one of the same, right? I've had parents come by. I don't teach on parenting, by the way. I don't plan on becoming a parent. And I can't tell you how many parents, moms and dads have come to me to thank me for becoming better parents. All we do is work on our beingness, which by the way, I'm working on every single day till my last breath,

[00:33:05] because the goal is never about getting. That's one of the biggest lies we were sold, David. It's about becoming, and you already are. It's really removing the conditioning so that you can be aware of the glorious men that you are and the glorious man. We're going to have those connections on the bottom of the show notes. But thank you very much for your time, Double Swat, coming from Toronto. So hold on the line. So humbled. Thank you for having me.